A question for teenage guys ? What do you prefer ?

put yourself in this position :





you first see a girl and you like her but your shy , so you stare at her alot and she stares back , you two communicate with your eye rather then your lips . whats going on in your head ? what are some things a girl can do while starring to make her seem more approachable ?A question for teenage guys ? What do you prefer ?
thinking to myself


';oh snap she saw me looking at her maybe i should flex and blow her mind with my muscles'; :D





maybe you should wave your hand to get him to come over to where your at?


if you really want him to approach youA question for teenage guys ? What do you prefer ?
i was kindof in this position when i was younger. there was this girl who constantly looked at me and i thought she was really cute. i never had the guts to talk to her and she never had the guts to talk to me. she would just stare and smile.. this was about 4 years ago. to this day i have never talked to her. i dont even bother looking at her anymore because im not interested. but, if she had said hi or even waved at me i might have met her and went on from there.
Alright, I'm not a teenage guy, but I'm a teenage lesbian so I think I qualify for this question.


If we often find ourselves staring at each other, if she smiles while we have eye-contact or maybe even winks, that defiantly say ';approachable'; in my book.


Things I would do(although this wouldn't really apply to most guys, I'm really out there) while making eye-contact would be smirking or raising my eyebrows in a funny way.


Hope that helped,


-Bella
easy, approach him. unless your just determined to make him come to you first then i suggest just make yourself seem available, if this guy is really shy then you need to make it obvious you want him to talk to you.. wave an smile ask his friends about him an ect.. if you like him then put yourself out there, you have nothing to lose! most guys are too scared of rejection so let him kno in your own way that rejection wont happen.. hope this helps lol good luck
well either he likes you and hasn't got the courage to ask you yet, or he's just a good guy who would probably go out with you if there was opportunity but it wouldn't go anywhere... you should make the first move to go and talk to him. initiate the first conversation, but then let him initiate the conversations from then on.
i am thinking how much fun it would be to fuk her most of the time if i really like someone ten i probably just want to ask her out but do not have the guts


if she smiles then thats a definate and a must possetive to aproach someone


and for the guy answer sit on the lap definately get the message
get him to talk to you... get a friend that he knows to introduce you so at least it will give him some guts to ask you out... but if not? then just be patient... guys like me are a bit ';nice and slow';.. =P
im thinking of how i can talk to her and what to talk about, try giving him a friendly smile! that should work!