talking about the age of 17 yr olds here...gimme some hints :DWhat does a regular teenage girl expects from a guy in a relationship?
For them to be trustworthy (not cheat) and to have fun with them.
It's basically the same as with any other women. Except if she's crazy.. then she'll want you to marry her (which isn't something a teenage girl should ever expect).What does a regular teenage girl expects from a guy in a relationship?
Every woman enters a relationship with all kinds of expectations. Some of this expectations are quite normal while others are quite exaggerated. However, there are general things that women want and expect in a relationship. They expect a man to be loving. Loving enough to be able to show it and tell them that they love them. Though to you it might seem stupid and that you are with them and that is enough proof that you love them, women expect to be told and reminded once in a while that they are loved. Get them a gift or a flower and a card and tell them that you love them and appreciate them.
In a relationship, a woman expects to be listened to. Sometimes they could be having a very important point that you will miss if you do not listen to her. Some men have the tendency of saying women are not bright and they are far much better off quiet than talking. This is not true, there are bright women out there, in fact some are brighter than most men. When she talks and tries to make you see a point listen and if you do not see the point she is making you can tell her in a polite way. The most important part is that you listen. If you are having a conversation with her, do not appear to be the one who keeps talking, give her a chance to air her views about something. She also has views you should know.
Women in a relationship expects that a man will be able to create time for her. A man should never be too busy to see his own girlfriend. if you do all these, you will be surprised how you relationship will change from better to excellent.
um i personally look for someone that can be there when i need them to be not just over the phone when i need to talk but physically as well.
um...if its at the point in the relationship for sex you must make her comfortable (no brain-er) show that you have at least a little bit of an idea of what your doin (doesnt necessarily mean experience). You must be open, set up a relationship so that she can come to you with anything and you not get upset and even when your upset show her that you can calmly talk out the situation....girls want so much. Girls want someone that can keep them on there toes but not so spontanious that you get to the point of not planning things out all the time, someone who she will never get bored with even if they just spend a night in the house. Someone she can have both stupid and intelligent conversations with.......there is just too much to list lol girls want the world but unfortunatly you cant give that to them just try your best lol.
a great mystery of the universe , but try these on for size..
to not be a jerk, use them or abuse them, be fun, funny, exciting, not boring, give them their time and some space of their own when needed, be on time most of the time, call back within a reasonable time if they call you, always show up if you say you're gonna show up , or call if you can't make it. do not cheat, or say another girl is better, prettier, smarter etc, than he one you're dating. make them a little jealous here and there to keep them guessing and on their toes, always play and bust on them and not be so serious all the time, have a bad boy like attitude and behavior but always be kind to them at the same time. not arrogant.
here are the bad boy traits you must know .most girls like these in a guy. even young ones.
Bad Boys are independent.
They lead their own lives and fit women into their schedule,
not the other way around. Women, by nature, want what they can't
have--and bad boys present a challenge and sense of mystery.
Bad Boys are decisive.
They're never wishy-washy. Women love a man who isn't afraid
to lead; a leader who confronts situations is a man who is
capable of fulfilling the most core female need, which is to
feel protected. You'll never hear a bad boy say, ';So do you
want to hang out sometime?'; Or, ';what do you feel like doing
tonight?'; Bad boys are men on the move. They've always got plans
in motion. And women want to go along for the ride.
Bad boys don't wear their emotions on their sleeve.
They expect to be respected and to have privacy. It always helps to be a good listener. Also when it comes to sex they want to be the first to ask. Pleading doesn't usually help your cause. Girls can be bitchy sometimes so they want you to understand their bad days. They want to be comfortable with you and free to be themselves. Trust is also a key aspect of a relationship... Don't violate it.
Good luck!
Well.
She expects him to communicate.
%26amp; don't be afraid to show affection in public, because if you dont, she might end up thinking you are embarrassed to be with her.
Answer mine VV
i would want from my boyfriend love. that's it. love. to be more specific, i'd want him to call me early in the morning on my birthday. i'd want him to buy me chocolates and flowers. and i'd want him to show me off to his friends. i'd want him to tell me i'm beautiful when i'm not. i'd want him to protect me against anything that might harm me. i'd want him to hug tight when i cry. but i would not want him wanting more and more and getting greedy. i'd want him to be tender with me and try to understand me. i'd want him to come and check on me if i were sick. i'd want him to help me with hw, and all that kind of stuff. as you probably know already, you shouldn't cheat on the girl. that's obvious. there's so much i would want from my boyfriend but i can't write them all. just think what you want from your boyfriend if you were a girl.
you might want to elaborate a TEENSY bit here, how long have you known her? how do you know her? how often do you get to see her?
she wants you to tell your honest feelings, don't hide them. BUT that is not an excuse to tell her mean things or just spew your sarcasm and cynicism everywhere. Be careful with this. Just communicate with her.
Also, she probably wants to do ';coupley'; things together. as simple as getting coffee together, or going to a movie on friday or staying in and renting one. it really depends on what type of things she's into though.
Lastly, it never hurts to ask. It's actually a really positive step to take in a relationship, just to ask her what her expectations are (and if for some stupid reason she says something about long term commitment, don't get too freaked out...she's 17. Us girls think we want something, and sometimes we change our minds. That said, if she says she doesn't know, maybe give her some suggestions like the ones above. Ask her if she wants to be ';boyfriend %26amp; girlfriend'; as cheesy as that sounds.
A lot of this depends on her, and definitely on her maturity level, if she's stuck in the high school world, it probably won't be that difficult of a relationship...then again, high schoolers love their drama.
i'm ranting. hopefully some of this helped! good luck!
yeah, like the other person said everyoone is different.
but generally, and personally i like
holding hands.
standing up for her.
sit with her at lunch.
call/text frequently.
say nice things.
walk with her in the halls.
smile when you cant talk.
lots more
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