Thursday, April 29, 2010

Is it ok to date teenage girls who have had babies?

is it really a big issue?Is it ok to date teenage girls who have had babies?
That depends on whether or not you want to. It also depends upon whether or not she is a minor and you are an adult. If the dude that helped make the baby is like many other young fathers, a coward who doesn't want to be involved in his own child's life, and split then you wouldn't have to worry about him getting in the way and causing problems. She might not be looking for a dad for her child or she might want to find a serious guy who doesn't have a problem with helping her raise a child. It's ok to do it as long as both of you are minors or both adults. Whether or not you do is up to you.Is it ok to date teenage girls who have had babies?
Yes, most times it could be.





Girls who have babies can have their baby's father in their lives still-either as a friend or a past lover just to take care of the baby or be there for the baby in any way.





Girls who have babies have what some called, ';extra baggage'; meaning that they have child care concerns like formula, daycare, transportation, thoughts about if the baby are ok and who they want in their lives to take care of them. Basically there can be alot of stress on the mother who is trying to take care of their babies that would get into your relationship with her.





And this can affect you because you would most likely be taking care of a child that isn't yours. You may feel that you are entitle to the child, but it would be great for the teenage mother to have someone to take care of her and her baby. But don't date any teenage girl out of pity only if it is of true affection that you feel for her and relationships can be prosperous even if one has had children before, it depends, but it can work.








HOPE THIS HELPS!!! : )
Um well if u date a girl with a baby i would watch out if she expects u to pay for dipers, food, clothes, etc.


Like if its once and a while yeah but if she is on your case about then she is with u for money and crap.





Alot of baby mamas find guys to pay for their baby but some baby mamsa aint like that.
Just don't add to the collection.


If you can date them and not expect sex, it would probably help them to regain some sort of normal teen life, apart from being very young mothers.
Put yourself in her shoes








would you still want a guy to date you if you were a teen mum i know i wud so i wud still have a social life








answer mine ple-ease
yes, it's okay to date teenage mothers, but remember their child will probably always come first and when i say probably i mean only if they really suck as mothers will you come first.
NO!!!!!!!! Don't do it!!!!! I'm a daughter of a teen mom. Please don't get caught up in this. Leave now.
To me, no.


To others yes.


I wouldn't date a teenage mother.
That's up to you. Lol
dont bother and neither should they

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